If you're looking for something a little different from the customary candle lit dinner this Valentine's Day then you'll love these memorable ideas. From

Silent Book Club

This one's for the book lovers as The Devon and Exeter Institution plays host to a special chapter of Exeter City of Literature's Silent Book Club on Wednesday 11 February. Make sure you book early as the the price of your pay-what-you-can-afford ticket includes themed snacks and drinks, a creative writing session, free-to-use typewriters, an exhibition of love letters from historic Devon writers, after hours access to The DEI, and a bookish goody bag! 

Silent Disco at Exeter Cathedral

Looking for a Valentine’s Day with a difference? Incredible Silent Discos returns to the breathtaking Exeter Cathedral on Saturday 14 February 2026. Dance beneath spectacular illuminations as top UK DJs spin iconic hits from the 80s, 90s and 00s. Choose from three music channels, don LED headphones and sing your heart out in one of Exeter’s most unforgettable settings.

Exeter Phoenix

For creative, heart-warming, feel-good events then you'll love a trip to Exeter Phoenix this Valentine's Day. From Seed Packing Workshops with Exeter Seed Bank to Soulful Singing and Mantra, Slow Stitching: Hand-Stitched Vessels and a Valentine’s Poetic Hunt, enjoy meaningful, hands-on experiences that will live long in the memory on this special day.

Exeter Gin

Looking for a Valentine’s Day experience with a twist? Exeter Gin School is open on 14 February, offering the perfect way to celebrate together. Enjoy a relaxed afternoon tasting their delicious gins or create your own bespoke bottle side by side, guided by an expert distiller.

Exeter City FC

Swap candlelit dinners for matchday thrills this Valentine’s Day (3pm kick-off) as Exeter City tackle Northampton Town. Feel the buzz of St James Park, cheer together from the stands and celebrate love the Grecian way – with football, passion and unforgettable atmosphere.

The Band of His Majesty’s Royal Marines

Enjoy a Valentine’s evening of stirring music with The Band of His Majesty’s Royal Marines. Expect precision, pageantry and a diverse programme spanning film scores, show tunes, modern hits and military classics, plus the world-famous Corps of Drums and breathtaking solo performances. A truly unforgettable night of musical excellence to share with your loved one.

Go Quest Adventures

If you love a challenge and want to spend some quality time with your significant other then how about teaming up for Go Quest Adventures, an interactive walking treasure hunt with a twist. You'll need to work together in solving the clues and puzzles around the city but you'll be rewarded by lots of fun along the way and making lasting memories.

A relaxing spa day 

For a truly relaxing Valentine’s Day, treat yourselves to some well-deserved pampering at one of Exeter’s luxury spas. 

The Spa at St Sidwell's Point Leisure Centre

Unwind in the spa pool, heated stone beds, and foot spas, then indulge in organic GAIA treatments crafted to leave you feeling completely rejuvenated.

The REN Spa at Hotel du Vin

Indulge at Hotel du Vin Spa with REN skincare treatments, soothing massages, and restorative rituals. Relax in the heated indoor/outdoor pool and unwind in the serene relaxation area for the ultimate city escape.

The Retreat Spa at Hotel Indigo

Tucked away in the heart of Exeter, experience a calm escape from the city. Unwind in hydro pools, sauna and steam rooms, experience the Niagara Falls rainfall shower, or indulge in luxurious treatments. 

Wear Park Spa at Exeter Golf & Country Club

Enjoy award-winning ESPA treatments, massages, and beauty services in stunning surroundings. Perfect for spa days, pampering, and indulgent relaxation with breathtaking golf course views.

Realax with our spa day blog.

Check out our Valentine's Day page for more ideas on how to spend the special day.

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Silent Book Club
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Exeter Cathedral
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Medieval cathedral. Fine example of Gothic Decorated style. Longest unbroken stretch of Gothic vaulting in the world. Image screen on West Front, Minstrels' Gallery and tombs. Expert guided tours, trails and activities for the family

Exeter Phoenix
Arts Centre
Exeter Phoenix - front of building

Exeter Phoenix is a vibrant, world-class multi-artform venue in the heart of Exeter's city centre. Each year we host hundreds of events and artistic activity spanning many disciplines.

Exeter Gin School
Food & Drink
Exeter Gin presented in a glass with ice and a lime

Visit our distillery in Teignmouth, where Exeter Gin is made, for a fun filled and informative experience. Choose from a tour & tasting experience with plenty of time to chill out in our bar, or learn how to make your very own gin with the help of our knowledgeable team of distillers.

Go Quest Adventures
Self-Guided Tour
Go Quest Adventures

Go Quest Adventures is turning the streets of Exeter into an Adventure Playground! Explore Exeter like never before, unlocking a secret trail, solving puzzles & completing challenges earning points along the way. Learn fun facts & discover hidden gems. Will you conquer the Quest?

St Sidwell's Point Leisure Centre
Leisure/Swimming Pool
St Sidwell's Point Leisure Centre

Welcome to St Sidwell’s Point, Exeter’s state-of-the-art leisure centre, in the heart of the city centre. St Sidwell’s Point is the first leisure facility in the UK to be built to the ultra-energy efficient Passivhaus standard, meaning energy consumption is reduced by 70% when compared with industry best practice standards. Visitors can also enjoy improved air quality, optimal air temperatures, and natural lighting due to the unique design and materials used to build our city’s leisure complex.

Hotel Du Vin
Hotel
People walking into Hotel Du Vin

Take a step inside this iconic building, formerly the West of England Eye Hospital, where historic walled gardens and striking architecture create the backdrop for a truly special experience.

The Retreat Spa at Hotel Indigo
Resort Spa
The Retreat Spa at Hotel Indigo

Relax, unwind and leave the outside world behind. Welcome to The Retreat Spa at Hotel Indigo. Nestled away in the heart of the city, restore your mind, body and soul as you enjoy luxurious hydro pools, a sauna, steam room and treatments.

Exeter Golf & Country Club
Sports/Leisure Centre
Exterior angled image of the EGCC

Join, visit or play. Whether you live locally in Exeter or are visiting the region, Exeter Golf and Country Club offers a premier leisure experience for members and guests. From golf, tennis, squash, gym and swimming in the indoor and outdoor pools, to members’ bars, Wear Park Restaurant and Wear Park Spa, the club offers top class sports facilities, dining and award-winning beauty and relaxation treatments. The Spa and Restaurant are open for non-members and visiting golfers can book tee times. You’ll even feel like you’re in a country retreat, yet just minutes from Exeter city centre.

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